Venus in Scorpio Reading 2022

Today is the last day of October. Happy Halloween if you celebrate! I’ve been loving seeing everyone’s costumes. I hope you’re better than me because, every year I forget about Halloween until it comes and end up waiting until the last moment to think of a costume. Hopefully next year I’ll make room to put some creativity to use. You never know, maybe end up at a Halloween function or two.

Venus has entered the sign of Scorpio on Sunday October 23rd, 2022 at 3:47am est and will remain here until November 11th, 2022. Venus is the planet of beauty, romance, music, money, and love. If your natal Venus is in the sign of Scorpio, you are currently experiencing your Venus return. Returns are transits that happen when a planet returns to its original position aka where it was placed when you were born. Venus returns are great for making changes in your life such as changing your physical appearance, starting a new beauty treatment, switching up your usual style, making more money by investing or creating new incomes for yourself, making big purchases, professional breaks, intense creative inspiration, vacations, conceiving children, and of course sparks flying in your love life.

Scorpio is ruled by both Mars & Pluto respectively. Mars is the traditional ruler while Pluto is the modern ruler. Mars is the planet of movement, action, and focus. Mars represents masculine energy at its prime. Pluto represents rebirth, transformation, but the process of getting to that is difficult as this planet brings everything negative to the surface so that you can work on it to improve. Pluto brings intensity to the subjects of the house it’s in and while it may be difficult to deal with at first, no pain lasts forever. Pluto can also bring great triumph and healing when you work on the subjects related to its placement. Scorpio is the sign of transformation, intensity, protection, and power. 8H deals with sex, deepest forms of intimacy, death, inheritance other people's money and resources. This is also the house of re-birth & transformation. Where whats unseen, underneath comes to the surface. This is the house that shows your resilience. Scorpio being a water sign means right now it’s all about our thoughts, emotions, and feelings. Take your time to go through the ups and downs of life and don’t allow outside energy or what's happening in your life to bring you down for too long. Take the hardships at this time as lessons and find ways to see the beauty in them (sidereal in Libra) and use it to uplift you. Venus and Mars energy being brought together can mean impulsivity when it comes to love and sex. Casual sex is on the rise and so is spontaneous sex between couples. Safe, consensual sex is the best sex! Don’t be surprised if roles are switched and the partner who you’d least expect to suddenly take charge.

Scorpios are a fixed sign meaning they stabilize, maintain, and strengthen. They value consistency and their fault because of this is they may be a bit resistant to change. This sign may appear to be a bit reserved or present a tough exterior, but they are a very deep loving sign. They care about those closest to them very deeply and remain loyal to them. This unwavering loyalty can be a bad thing when it’s for the wrong person. Fixed signs, unlike the other modalities, often struggle with leaving because the comfort and longevity of the relationship can make it harder for them to see or acknowledge they’re being taken advantage of and leave. Venus in a fixed sign means take note of what is consistent, clearly here to stay in the long run and pour into that. Most of all a reminder to stay consistent and hold ourselves accountable to the goals and routines we set. If you’re interested, we offer birth chart readings to help you break down your chart and personal placements. Venus in Scorpio is always an emphasis on privacy. It’s best to not share what you’re working on or details of your relationship out of safety and protection for your blessings. If you’ve been thinking about dying your hair or getting a new tattoo or piercing this transit would be great for any cosmetic changes involving needles or equipment.

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Disclaimer: With any reading, take what resonates and leave the rest. Do not force any message to apply to you.

This reading was done on a Moon day (Monday) and the moon was in Aquarius. For more info on planetary days and hours click here.

Decks used: Sugar’s homemade “Time Essence” deck (not for sale yet), Modern Love Tarot by Ethony, AMEO Deck on Etsy, Lovers Oracle, The Romance Angels by Doreen Virtue

Love Life Right Now:

Seven of Cups (Water sign energy). I’m seeing the single collective have lots of options right now when it comes to dating however the focus seems to be on other things. You could be talking to people, going on dates, or simply hanging out with friends. It’s like you finally got your priorities in order and recognized love seems to be last on the list right now and that's okay it's real. Some of you are focused on your career, finances, getting your money up not your funny up. Others are simply trying to find the joy in life and do what makes them happy. This could be through new hobbies, interests, going out, making friends, having sex, etc. I did mention casual sex is a thing right now since its Scorpio season and that could be for various reasons. I’m sensing fatigue for a lot of people when it comes to romantic relationships due to continuously being disappointed. That's kind of the overwhelming reason I’m getting for not wanting to pursue a serious, committed, long term relationship at this time. It’s okay to take a break from love, but don’t let it turn permanent or make you bitter. You’re still deserving of love, you just have to know whose right for you in your life.

Love Capability:

Two of Cups rx (Water sign energy). Some of you are still going through some type of separation or break up with your person. This has been a very long and drawn out process because you were with this person for a while and saw no end. For many of you, I see you have been taking your time back for yourself because with the Ten of Cups rx at the bottom of the deck you did see this as being you one and only till death do you part. You put a lot into your relationship rightfully because you saw an entire future with this person, marriage, house, family the whole nine yards. Now the relationship is experiencing a death of its own you never saw coming. This one is really heavy and tough. Take as much time as you need. Two splitting up is just one so although it may sound sad, Spirit wants you to recognize the power in it just being about you again. The privilege in living life without having to consider anyone else’s opinions or think about another person. You’re a free agent again and it’s time you accept the transition and stand in it. Find ways to date yourself and remind yourself why you love you.

Blocks & Challenges:

King of Pentacles (Earth sign energy). I’m getting a lot of you keep approaching love from this objective, goal oriented standpoint, but that's not what it's about. You’re missing out on experiencing the person and building close emotional, intimate connection with them. It’s not just about learning to love them. Express yourself, allow yourself to be vulnerable, let that person see you inside and out that is what creates a long lasting union. In your next relationship Spirit is asking you to actually be a part of the relationship and feel comfortable sharing as much of yourself as you receive from the other. Many of your partners are missing a vital piece of you that you hide from everyone and don’t allow to be experienced. It’s normal to fall in love and envision a future with your partner, but Spirit says don’t become too fixated on this to the point where you’re not enjoying your relationship for what it is in the present and try not to put too much pressure on things happening exactly the way you saw it. Find a balance between just rolling with it and maintaining the relationship. It doesn’t have to be so serious and I think a lot of previous relationships were caught up in that and as a result moving way too fast. Going at that speed, without the proper foundation you’ll do nothing but crash and burn which is what ended up happening unfortunately. Spirit also says in your next connection focus on your stability. Make time for everything in your life equally so nothing is neglected. Don’t put your all into your relationships because when they end you’re left with nothing.

Potential Partner:

Taurus (find your stability, your security, connect to sensual pleasures) + Water (intuition, feelings, purification, soul, unconscious, introspection). The result of this is a super aware, watery, feminine, emotionally in tune Taurus. Your potential partner could be a Taurus Sun and I’m also picking up on some water personal placements in their chart. This could be a Cancer, Pisces, or Scorpio Rising/Ascendant, Midheaven, IC, Moon, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, or Saturn. Taurus is ruled by Venus and naturally romantic. Taurus as a lover knows how to be relational, emotional, love, pleasing, beautiful, and creative. As an Earth sign they’re very in tune with their own body. Their body might be an attractive feature of theirs because of how well maintained it is. They’re really good at meeting their own physical needs so it makes it easy to show up for their person when needed and always make sure they’re okay. They will always ask you if you ate, if you need anything, etc. This is a person that thinks of you with action they do and makes your importance to them or in their life clear to you every chance they get. This person being in your life will bring you more stability and have you on track making progress to fulfill your biggest goals yet. They will have you feeling the most healthy, strong, and connected to your body ever. You’ll also feel connected to the Earth and nature. The physical connection you two will share together will be something extraordinary out of this world as well. Tauruses are naturally artistic and have a really good ear for music as they rule the vocal cords. Many Taurus placements have musical talents they find ways to share with the world through singing, dancing, playing instruments, composing, producing, or even rapping. Pay attention to music and sound as key factors in your relationship. This could be present when you meet each other or it could be something you share in common. Your relationship with this person will most likely be something serious and one you can tell is going to last a while. Commitment is something they value as well. They’re not the type to entertain flings. Especially after meeting you, playtime is over. They will get it together and be a one-person-lover. I’m not surprised if they’re quick to lock it down. I have a feeling this person remains true to you as a result of your own loyalty. That being said, treat them how you want to be treated. This is someone who knows their worth so they are not with any games. They have a lot of respect for you, but mostly for themselves so they know when to walk away and will do so if they feel they need to.

How to Manifest Them:

“The past is now behind you. Release it and embrace new possibilities. A new path is now available to you. Follow it with faith.” This card immediately jumped out which is why I’m including it first. In order to get where you want to be in life, you have to be able to let go of and move on. For some of you, Spirit is pointing out your inability to let go of expired connections in your life as a hindrance and blockage keeping you from where you truly deserve to be. What's meant to be will be without you or anyone having to force it to be. Remember that.

“Give thanks for the blessings of love soon to come your way. Know that you deserve to be and have all that your heart truly desires.” Boom. This is it. This is the one. If you don’t take anything else from this reading, please let it be this.

“If you could do anything, what would it be? The answer dwells in your heart, not in your mind, for the heart is the gateway to the soul.” Spirit says get clear on your intentions so what you’re asking for can come to you.

Specific signs/symbols/synchronicities:

bunny, matching numbers, betrothed, lady, buying hair, “alterations needed”, “wash cold do not bleach”, going to the cleaners, going to the laundromat, pot of gold, horseshoe, Bahamas vacation, classic album, new artist on repeat, experiencing pain, witnessing conflict outside, mailman, Heaven, Hell, “just like a magnet”, Law of Attraction, manifesting, magic, fall fashion & accessories, developing personal style, matching future child names, overflowing cups, financial wins and abundance, receiving confirmation from another person you’re doing the right thing. Lottery Ticket (movie), decision, opportunity, 1H Virgo Sun, 10H Taurus NN (North Node), 8H Virgo Jupiter, 12H Sagittarius Sun, 9H Libra Sun, 5H Taurus Jupiter, 12H Capricorn Venus, 7H Pisces Sun, 1H Scorpio Venus, 1H Gemini Venus, restaurant, meal, the color Orange, media organization, difficult moment, falling in love, going back to school as an adult, favorite animals whales or dolphins, disappointing situation, cafe, 6:30am meeting time, reality, obligation, health, airport, hotel, strategy, reputation, passion, “Thanks”

Channeled Songs:

Keep Your Head by Mary J. Blige, The Falls by Chxrry22, Sweet Vacation by Lionel Richie, She Drives Me Wild by Michael Jackson, The Lady In My Life by Michael Jackson, Keep Tryin’ by Groove Theory, All I Do by Stevie Wonder, GLOWED UP by KAYTRANADA ft. Anderson .Paak

Disclaimer: Channeled Times of the Essence are significant dates, time periods, affirmations, or signs you can possibly experience important love life milestones such as next or first sexual encounter, next relationship, duration of relationship, potentially meeting someone new, going on a date, etc.

Channeled Times of the Essence:

Four months, Eight days, Winter Season, Thursday (Jupiter Day), 20+ years, Leo Season, Summer Season, YES!, Sooner than you think! Stay positive, Fall Season, Scorpio Season, One Year, July, Sunday, June, Eleven Months, Capricorn Season

Angel Numbers:

5442, 8872, 5972, 4933, 7789, 4401, 5288, 2972, 1262, 1616, 1212, 9160, 9095, 1757, 1262, 1144, 1155, 3744, 8494, 828

What to Expect Next:

As always, I included every card that came out. Take what resonates for your situation.

You Deserve Love says, “You are lovable!”. This is reaffirming how worthy you are of what you’re asking for. Whenever there is a delay, it’s for a reason, but a delay is far from a rejection. You’re waiting and waiting for something amazing in store for you. Spirit is setting you up to be able to receive it fully and bask in it the way you should be when it finally does come around. For those of you who have been very patient thus far, keep loving yourself and speaking life and affirmations over yourself.

Heart to Heart Conversations says, “Honestly discuss your feelings with each other”. I feel like this conversation might be happening between two exes or people that just couldn’t get it right to be together. If you are open to conversation with your ex and you feel like that's something you need for closure or to move on, Spirit says be careful. The Deception card also came out with this indicating the other person withholding information from you or continuing to not be honest. Especially if this is a person who was deceitful towards you at any point during the relationship, don’t have much faith in this new version of themselves they’ve presented to you to try to reel you back in.

Flirt says, “Extend your lighthearted energy to others!”. You could definitely be talking to, dating, or casually seeing someone. Whoever this is about, you and this person have lots of flirty banter going on that builds sexual tension between you really well.